Case dismissed. And there was much rejoicing! Yay!
Important points that I discovered over the past few days:
I am disgustingly in love with J.
His kids are confused, angry and probably sad.
J is awesome with his kids and they don't even realize it.
Things work out - maybe not right away or obviously, but they do.
I shouldn't drink 3 hard iced teas in one night after not eating dinner.
I need a vacation!